1st mistake: rushing things
When women say yes to a proposal they instantly start rushing things, stressing and planning. However, it’s not a good idea to do so in the heat of the moment.
First of all, try and remember how you imagined your wedding when you were a little girl. Or think about the weddings you’ve been to lately and what you liked about them. If you don’t have any experience or memories, then get your phone out and start browsing wedding websites. Look around on photographer’s websites (for example: www.vamosweddingphotography.com, www.feyeerphoto.com or www.duplaexpo.com), wedding planner’s (https://kiralyieskuvok.hu ) or decorator’s sites (www.fleur.hu, www.sabinadecors.com or www.florastudiowebshop.hu). They are the most credible and the ones from whom you can get the most information and inspiration.
2nd mistake: choosing the wrong vendors
Thanks to the internet, today we can choose from tons of vendors. This has a lot of advantages, but a lot of disadvantages too. When choosing a vendor, be sure to check out their style of work. Be sure to check how reliable they are. (Whether they show up on time at the wedding, deliver the material on time, etc.) Be sure to talk to him or her on the phone or even meet in person to get to know them, because it’s important to be in tune with each other.
It is important not to rely on various social media groups. If you ask a question in one group, you’ll get hundreds of responses and by the time you’ve looked through them, you’ll be discouraged from getting married. It’s also important to remember that every wedding has a different budget. So our needs are also different. It would be foolish to rely on the one-time experience of people with different budgets and different options. You should contact a vendor who you can ask questions from, who you can consult with.
If you take these things into consideration, you won’t be disappointed with the vendor you choose if you organize your wedding on your own.
3rd mistake: you keep stressing on the big day and due to this you can’t enjoy the moment
The big day you’ve been waiting for so much has finally arrived, but if you don’t plan ahead, then your whole day will be stressful and you won’t be able to enjoy one moment of it. To avoid this, plan in advance who does what and when. Appoint tasks to people, who will be in charge of solving or supervising anything that goes wrong. If you have a wedding MC, then they’re going to help a lot too. However, they only arrive a bit before the wedding starts, but the assembling and preparations will be going on from early in the morning. So if you don’t want to constantly keep answering vendors’ questions all day, then plan and appoint every task to someone. Trust me, if you prepare for these in advance, you’ll have a relaxed and enjoyable time.
Solution: Consultation
I have a very useful piece of advice for you, which I hope from the bottom of my heart that you will take. First and foremost, open your phone and find a wedding planner you like. Almost every planner has a free first consultation package. Use this opportunity. Even if you feel you don’t need a wedding planner. Why? Because they’ll give you great advice. Because during the discussion you’ll be able to see what they can give you, what they can help you with and thanks to their advice you’ll be able to plan your wedding more easily and maybe even save some money along the way. With their experienced knowledge, they’ll help clarify the questions you have so you don’t get lost in the planning, but enjoy one of the best times of your life.
